My husband is the smartest man I know personally. Einstein may be smarter than my hubby but I never met Mr. E. Sometimes Mr. P's lack of understanding of things makes me ... little bit angry. Like the other day, he took our son out to the pool while I rested indoors. After coming back - he complained of all the naughty things that Satu had done along the way. I didn't say anything and served dinner.
After a few days, he took him to the pool alone while I did house chores that I couldn't do while Satu was at home. After coming back, my dear hubby complained again.
At this point I had to ask him - who do you think you are complaining to? I spend all of my time with him. I know of all the naughty things that Satu does. I know of all that he could do too.
But this also made me realize a very interesting thing. We complain to God and ... well, He made everything. He knows. He is aware. It is our Karma and we have to sort it out, not him. He really knows everything that has happened so far and of all the things that are going to happen. I don't think He can change it ... so why complain ?? Why not try something else instead?